Needs Smart Strong Dominant Male
ladyhawk91
Sykesville, Maryland | Vrouw Op zoek naar een Man
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Ik spreek:
Engels
Ik beschrijf mezelf als:
I'm six feet tall, 280 lbs. and intelligent. If this doesn't scare you off, then please read more.
I've been told, because I won't call just any man who claims to be a "dom", master or sir, I'm not really a sub. I think it just means I haven't found anyone smart enough or strong enough. I can't fully give over, to surrender until he can win my respect. I don't know... this is where words fail me... I've experienced it a couple times so I know it is out there. It is a combination of confidence and an intelligence which is impossible to ignore and impossible for me to resist. I don't push all the time, I am thoroughly submissive, but to the right man.
I am looking for something long term & monogamous. I can't imagine being able to develop the depth of trust with someone and not be committed to them. If you are looking for a "scene" or just someone to be a whipping post a couple hours a week, please move on. I am looking towards a future and though I am not asking for any promises... I want someone who is open to making them if things work out.
I want to belong to someone... it goes beyond the kink of submissiveness and spanking and all that other stuff. I want that bond of trust and caring between a dom and sub. I can't separate the two, the feelings from the trust. I need to serve and care for a man. I need to be spanked and flogged. I need boundaries and guidance. But I need all those tempered by caring and affection and from someone with integrity and intelligence and kindness.
Nearly every "dom" I've talked too just wants to jump right into the ropes and paddles and penetration. They don't seem to care about building a foundation. I want to find someone I have things in common, who I can share myself with outside of the bedroom as well as inside.
I long for that special connection between me and my master where I've opened up enough to let him in to see the real me. I've trusted him enough to put myself in his hands knowing I would feel pain, knowing I would be used, and knowing he is doing it for the two of us. To bring pleasure and happiness to us both. I know it will take effort on my part to let go and trust someone to that extent. I also know it will require my master to have strength of body and will, effort, intuition, and intelligence to help me over that edge. I can almost see that fist of control I keep inside me. I can't let it go on my own... I need someone stronger than me to push me through the pain, through my barriers to either help me open that fist or force me to.
In return for their patience and love and discipline I would be completely theirs. All the confusion and doubts and fears, gone. I would be fully theirs willing to do anything and everything for them. I don't believe I will turn into a thoroughly passive female, I tend to be a smart ass whether on purpose or by personality and need someone who can appreciate and temper that side of me.
So, if you are looking for someone to learn under you, you have patience, and enjoy a challenge, you are looking for someone who can carry on an intelligent conversation at the dinner table, who won't embarrass you in front of your friends and who is not afraid to try new things, then please contact me.
Please DON'T contact me if you are looking only to physically dominate a larger woman because you are insecure in your own stature. Do not just THINK you are clever and smart. Don't be looking for a mindless doll to manipulate and stay where she is put.
I've been told, because I won't call just any man who claims to be a "dom", master or sir, I'm not really a sub. I think it just means I haven't found anyone smart enough or strong enough. I can't fully give over, to surrender until he can win my respect. I don't know... this is where words fail me... I've experienced it a couple times so I know it is out there. It is a combination of confidence and an intelligence which is impossible to ignore and impossible for me to resist. I don't push all the time, I am thoroughly submissive, but to the right man.
I am looking for something long term & monogamous. I can't imagine being able to develop the depth of trust with someone and not be committed to them. If you are looking for a "scene" or just someone to be a whipping post a couple hours a week, please move on. I am looking towards a future and though I am not asking for any promises... I want someone who is open to making them if things work out.
I want to belong to someone... it goes beyond the kink of submissiveness and spanking and all that other stuff. I want that bond of trust and caring between a dom and sub. I can't separate the two, the feelings from the trust. I need to serve and care for a man. I need to be spanked and flogged. I need boundaries and guidance. But I need all those tempered by caring and affection and from someone with integrity and intelligence and kindness.
Nearly every "dom" I've talked too just wants to jump right into the ropes and paddles and penetration. They don't seem to care about building a foundation. I want to find someone I have things in common, who I can share myself with outside of the bedroom as well as inside.
I long for that special connection between me and my master where I've opened up enough to let him in to see the real me. I've trusted him enough to put myself in his hands knowing I would feel pain, knowing I would be used, and knowing he is doing it for the two of us. To bring pleasure and happiness to us both. I know it will take effort on my part to let go and trust someone to that extent. I also know it will require my master to have strength of body and will, effort, intuition, and intelligence to help me over that edge. I can almost see that fist of control I keep inside me. I can't let it go on my own... I need someone stronger than me to push me through the pain, through my barriers to either help me open that fist or force me to.
In return for their patience and love and discipline I would be completely theirs. All the confusion and doubts and fears, gone. I would be fully theirs willing to do anything and everything for them. I don't believe I will turn into a thoroughly passive female, I tend to be a smart ass whether on purpose or by personality and need someone who can appreciate and temper that side of me.
So, if you are looking for someone to learn under you, you have patience, and enjoy a challenge, you are looking for someone who can carry on an intelligent conversation at the dinner table, who won't embarrass you in front of your friends and who is not afraid to try new things, then please contact me.
Please DON'T contact me if you are looking only to physically dominate a larger woman because you are insecure in your own stature. Do not just THINK you are clever and smart. Don't be looking for a mindless doll to manipulate and stay where she is put.
Sterrenbeeld
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Uiterlijk & Situatie
Mijn Lichaamstype Is
BBW
Mijn Lengte Is
6' 0 (1.83 m)
Mijn Ogen Zijn
Bruin
Mijn Ethniciteit Is
Blank
Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is
Nooit getrouwd
Ik Heb Kinderen
Nee
Ik Wil Kinderen
Nee
Mijn Beste Eigenschap Is
Glimlach
Body Art
Piercings, maar alleen in mijn oren, Zichtbare tatoeage
Mijn Haar Is
Bruin
Ben je bereid te verhuizen?
Ja
Status
Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is
MBO
Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is
Zelfstandig
Mijn specialisatie is
Recht
Mijn functie is:
Respite Care Provider
Ik Woon
Met Huisgeno(o)ten
Bij mij thuis
Komen er soms vrienden langs
Ik Ben Een Roker
Ja - Als ik uitga
Ik Drink
Nee
Persoonlijkheid
Op de middelbare school was ik
Stil
In sociale situaties ben ik
Opmerkzaam, Vriendelijk
Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn
Gezin, Eten, Fotografie, Lezen, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Films, Internet, Spellen, Theater, Koken, Kaarten spelen, Computers
Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is
Met Vrienden zijn, Thuis blijven, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Films, Relaxen, Een boek lezen, Tv, Naar een museum gaan
Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als
Vriendelijk, Een herrieschopper, Gek
Meningen
Mijn Geloof Is
Spiritueel Maar Niet Religieus
Ik Ga Naar Diensten
Nooit
Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is
Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Gek, Obscuur
Smaak
Op tv kijk ik:
Documentaires, Komedies, Educatief, Films, Sport
In de bioscoop kijk ik:
Actie, Science Fiction, Komedie, Documentair, Thriller
Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar
Country, Rock, Pop, Klassiek, Blues, Folk
Ik lees graag
Comedy, Fantasy, Fictie, Horror, Humor, Mysterie, Natuur, Wetenschappelijk, Satire, Natuurwetenschap, Science Fiction, Bovennatuurlijk
Zoekt
Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?
Gevatheid, Macht, Moed, Gevoeligheid, Empathie, Goeie Vaardigheden, Humor, Bedachtzaamheid, Intelligentie
Waar ben je naar op zoek?
Date, Vastigheid, Dominatie, Bondage