Needs Smart Strong Dominant Male
ladyhawk91
Sykesville, Maryland | Kvinde Søger en Mand
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Engelsk
Jeg beskriver mig selv som
I'm six feet tall, 280 lbs. and intelligent. If this doesn't scare you off, then please read more.
I've been told, because I won't call just any man who claims to be a "dom", master or sir, I'm not really a sub. I think it just means I haven't found anyone smart enough or strong enough. I can't fully give over, to surrender until he can win my respect. I don't know... this is where words fail me... I've experienced it a couple times so I know it is out there. It is a combination of confidence and an intelligence which is impossible to ignore and impossible for me to resist. I don't push all the time, I am thoroughly submissive, but to the right man.
I am looking for something long term & monogamous. I can't imagine being able to develop the depth of trust with someone and not be committed to them. If you are looking for a "scene" or just someone to be a whipping post a couple hours a week, please move on. I am looking towards a future and though I am not asking for any promises... I want someone who is open to making them if things work out.
I want to belong to someone... it goes beyond the kink of submissiveness and spanking and all that other stuff. I want that bond of trust and caring between a dom and sub. I can't separate the two, the feelings from the trust. I need to serve and care for a man. I need to be spanked and flogged. I need boundaries and guidance. But I need all those tempered by caring and affection and from someone with integrity and intelligence and kindness.
Nearly every "dom" I've talked too just wants to jump right into the ropes and paddles and penetration. They don't seem to care about building a foundation. I want to find someone I have things in common, who I can share myself with outside of the bedroom as well as inside.
I long for that special connection between me and my master where I've opened up enough to let him in to see the real me. I've trusted him enough to put myself in his hands knowing I would feel pain, knowing I would be used, and knowing he is doing it for the two of us. To bring pleasure and happiness to us both. I know it will take effort on my part to let go and trust someone to that extent. I also know it will require my master to have strength of body and will, effort, intuition, and intelligence to help me over that edge. I can almost see that fist of control I keep inside me. I can't let it go on my own... I need someone stronger than me to push me through the pain, through my barriers to either help me open that fist or force me to.
In return for their patience and love and discipline I would be completely theirs. All the confusion and doubts and fears, gone. I would be fully theirs willing to do anything and everything for them. I don't believe I will turn into a thoroughly passive female, I tend to be a smart ass whether on purpose or by personality and need someone who can appreciate and temper that side of me.
So, if you are looking for someone to learn under you, you have patience, and enjoy a challenge, you are looking for someone who can carry on an intelligent conversation at the dinner table, who won't embarrass you in front of your friends and who is not afraid to try new things, then please contact me.
Please DON'T contact me if you are looking only to physically dominate a larger woman because you are insecure in your own stature. Do not just THINK you are clever and smart. Don't be looking for a mindless doll to manipulate and stay where she is put.
I've been told, because I won't call just any man who claims to be a "dom", master or sir, I'm not really a sub. I think it just means I haven't found anyone smart enough or strong enough. I can't fully give over, to surrender until he can win my respect. I don't know... this is where words fail me... I've experienced it a couple times so I know it is out there. It is a combination of confidence and an intelligence which is impossible to ignore and impossible for me to resist. I don't push all the time, I am thoroughly submissive, but to the right man.
I am looking for something long term & monogamous. I can't imagine being able to develop the depth of trust with someone and not be committed to them. If you are looking for a "scene" or just someone to be a whipping post a couple hours a week, please move on. I am looking towards a future and though I am not asking for any promises... I want someone who is open to making them if things work out.
I want to belong to someone... it goes beyond the kink of submissiveness and spanking and all that other stuff. I want that bond of trust and caring between a dom and sub. I can't separate the two, the feelings from the trust. I need to serve and care for a man. I need to be spanked and flogged. I need boundaries and guidance. But I need all those tempered by caring and affection and from someone with integrity and intelligence and kindness.
Nearly every "dom" I've talked too just wants to jump right into the ropes and paddles and penetration. They don't seem to care about building a foundation. I want to find someone I have things in common, who I can share myself with outside of the bedroom as well as inside.
I long for that special connection between me and my master where I've opened up enough to let him in to see the real me. I've trusted him enough to put myself in his hands knowing I would feel pain, knowing I would be used, and knowing he is doing it for the two of us. To bring pleasure and happiness to us both. I know it will take effort on my part to let go and trust someone to that extent. I also know it will require my master to have strength of body and will, effort, intuition, and intelligence to help me over that edge. I can almost see that fist of control I keep inside me. I can't let it go on my own... I need someone stronger than me to push me through the pain, through my barriers to either help me open that fist or force me to.
In return for their patience and love and discipline I would be completely theirs. All the confusion and doubts and fears, gone. I would be fully theirs willing to do anything and everything for them. I don't believe I will turn into a thoroughly passive female, I tend to be a smart ass whether on purpose or by personality and need someone who can appreciate and temper that side of me.
So, if you are looking for someone to learn under you, you have patience, and enjoy a challenge, you are looking for someone who can carry on an intelligent conversation at the dinner table, who won't embarrass you in front of your friends and who is not afraid to try new things, then please contact me.
Please DON'T contact me if you are looking only to physically dominate a larger woman because you are insecure in your own stature. Do not just THINK you are clever and smart. Don't be looking for a mindless doll to manipulate and stay where she is put.
Underskriv
Libra
Udseende & Situation
Min kropstype er
Stor og smuk
Min højde er
183 cm
Mine øjne er
Brun
Min etnicitet er
Kaukasisk
Min civilstand er
Aldrig gift
Jeg har børn
Nej
Jeg vil have børn
Nej
Mit bedste karaktertræk er
Smil
Kropsudsmykning
Piercet... Men kun øre(r), Synlig tatovering
Mit hår er
Brun
Villig til at flytte
Ja
Status
Mit uddannelsesniveau er
Lidt af universitetet
Min nuværende ansættelsesstatus er
Selvstændig
Mit speciale er
Medicin / sundhed
Min jobtitel er
Respite Care Provider
Jeg bor
Med værelseskammerat(er)
Hjemme
Venner kommer forbi en gang i mellem
Jeg er ryger
Ja - til fester
Jeg drikker
Nej
Personlighed
I gymnasiet var jeg
Stille type
Min sociale opførsel er
Observerende, Venlig
Mine interesser og hobbier er
Familie, Spise til middag, Fotografering, Læsning, Læring, Film, Internet, Spil, Teater, Madlavning, Kortspil, Computer
Min idé om at have det sjovt er
Være sammen med venner, Være hjemme, Prøve noget nyt, I biografen, Afslappende, Læse en bog, Tv, Gå på museum
Mine venner beskriver mig som
Venlig, Ballademager, Fjollet
Synspunkter
Min religion er
Spirituel, men ikke religiøs
Jeg deltager i tjenester
Aldrig
Min form for humor er
Snu, Tør / sarkastisk, Venlig, Fjollet, Obskur
Smag
I tv ser jeg altid
Dokumentarer, Sitcoms, Gør-det-selv, Film, Sport
Når jeg går i biografen ser jeg altid en
Handling, Science Fiction, Comedy, Dokumentar, Thriller
Når jeg hører musik, lytter jeg altid til
Land, Rock, Pop, Klassisk, Blues, Folk
Når jeg læser, læser jeg altid
Komisk, Fantasy, Fiktion, Gys, Humor, Mystik, Natur, Opslag, Satire, Videnskab, Science Fiction, Overnaturlig
Leder efter
Hvad finder du attraktivt?
Morsom, Magt, Skaldethed, Følsomhed, Empati, Dygtighed, Humor, Omtanke, Intelligens
Hvilken type forhold leder du efter?
Dato, Forpligtet, Domination, Bondage