Needs Smart Strong Dominant Male
ladyhawk91
Sykesville, Maryland | Femme Cherchant Homme
Informations de base
Je sais parler
Anglais
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I'm six feet tall, 280 lbs. and intelligent. If this doesn't scare you off, then please read more.
I've been told, because I won't call just any man who claims to be a "dom", master or sir, I'm not really a sub. I think it just means I haven't found anyone smart enough or strong enough. I can't fully give over, to surrender until he can win my respect. I don't know... this is where words fail me... I've experienced it a couple times so I know it is out there. It is a combination of confidence and an intelligence which is impossible to ignore and impossible for me to resist. I don't push all the time, I am thoroughly submissive, but to the right man.
I am looking for something long term & monogamous. I can't imagine being able to develop the depth of trust with someone and not be committed to them. If you are looking for a "scene" or just someone to be a whipping post a couple hours a week, please move on. I am looking towards a future and though I am not asking for any promises... I want someone who is open to making them if things work out.
I want to belong to someone... it goes beyond the kink of submissiveness and spanking and all that other stuff. I want that bond of trust and caring between a dom and sub. I can't separate the two, the feelings from the trust. I need to serve and care for a man. I need to be spanked and flogged. I need boundaries and guidance. But I need all those tempered by caring and affection and from someone with integrity and intelligence and kindness.
Nearly every "dom" I've talked too just wants to jump right into the ropes and paddles and penetration. They don't seem to care about building a foundation. I want to find someone I have things in common, who I can share myself with outside of the bedroom as well as inside.
I long for that special connection between me and my master where I've opened up enough to let him in to see the real me. I've trusted him enough to put myself in his hands knowing I would feel pain, knowing I would be used, and knowing he is doing it for the two of us. To bring pleasure and happiness to us both. I know it will take effort on my part to let go and trust someone to that extent. I also know it will require my master to have strength of body and will, effort, intuition, and intelligence to help me over that edge. I can almost see that fist of control I keep inside me. I can't let it go on my own... I need someone stronger than me to push me through the pain, through my barriers to either help me open that fist or force me to.
In return for their patience and love and discipline I would be completely theirs. All the confusion and doubts and fears, gone. I would be fully theirs willing to do anything and everything for them. I don't believe I will turn into a thoroughly passive female, I tend to be a smart ass whether on purpose or by personality and need someone who can appreciate and temper that side of me.
So, if you are looking for someone to learn under you, you have patience, and enjoy a challenge, you are looking for someone who can carry on an intelligent conversation at the dinner table, who won't embarrass you in front of your friends and who is not afraid to try new things, then please contact me.
Please DON'T contact me if you are looking only to physically dominate a larger woman because you are insecure in your own stature. Do not just THINK you are clever and smart. Don't be looking for a mindless doll to manipulate and stay where she is put.
I've been told, because I won't call just any man who claims to be a "dom", master or sir, I'm not really a sub. I think it just means I haven't found anyone smart enough or strong enough. I can't fully give over, to surrender until he can win my respect. I don't know... this is where words fail me... I've experienced it a couple times so I know it is out there. It is a combination of confidence and an intelligence which is impossible to ignore and impossible for me to resist. I don't push all the time, I am thoroughly submissive, but to the right man.
I am looking for something long term & monogamous. I can't imagine being able to develop the depth of trust with someone and not be committed to them. If you are looking for a "scene" or just someone to be a whipping post a couple hours a week, please move on. I am looking towards a future and though I am not asking for any promises... I want someone who is open to making them if things work out.
I want to belong to someone... it goes beyond the kink of submissiveness and spanking and all that other stuff. I want that bond of trust and caring between a dom and sub. I can't separate the two, the feelings from the trust. I need to serve and care for a man. I need to be spanked and flogged. I need boundaries and guidance. But I need all those tempered by caring and affection and from someone with integrity and intelligence and kindness.
Nearly every "dom" I've talked too just wants to jump right into the ropes and paddles and penetration. They don't seem to care about building a foundation. I want to find someone I have things in common, who I can share myself with outside of the bedroom as well as inside.
I long for that special connection between me and my master where I've opened up enough to let him in to see the real me. I've trusted him enough to put myself in his hands knowing I would feel pain, knowing I would be used, and knowing he is doing it for the two of us. To bring pleasure and happiness to us both. I know it will take effort on my part to let go and trust someone to that extent. I also know it will require my master to have strength of body and will, effort, intuition, and intelligence to help me over that edge. I can almost see that fist of control I keep inside me. I can't let it go on my own... I need someone stronger than me to push me through the pain, through my barriers to either help me open that fist or force me to.
In return for their patience and love and discipline I would be completely theirs. All the confusion and doubts and fears, gone. I would be fully theirs willing to do anything and everything for them. I don't believe I will turn into a thoroughly passive female, I tend to be a smart ass whether on purpose or by personality and need someone who can appreciate and temper that side of me.
So, if you are looking for someone to learn under you, you have patience, and enjoy a challenge, you are looking for someone who can carry on an intelligent conversation at the dinner table, who won't embarrass you in front of your friends and who is not afraid to try new things, then please contact me.
Please DON'T contact me if you are looking only to physically dominate a larger woman because you are insecure in your own stature. Do not just THINK you are clever and smart. Don't be looking for a mindless doll to manipulate and stay where she is put.
Signe
Balance
Apparence & situation
Ma silhouette est
BBW
Ma taille est
6' 0 (1.83 m)
Mes yeux sont
Marrons
Mon origine ethnique est
Caucasienne
Ma situation maritale est
Jamais été marié/e
J'ai des enfants
Non
Je veux des enfants
Non
Ce que j'ai de mieux
Sourire
Art Corporel
Oreilles percées, Tatouages visibles
Mes cheveux sont
Marrons
Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs
Oui
Statut
Mon niveau d'éducation est
Etudes secondaires incomplètes
Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est
Auto-entrepreneur
Mon domaine de compétence est
Médical / Santé
Mon titre de fonction est
Respite Care Provider
Je vis
En colocation
Chez moi
Des amis passent à l'occasion
Je fume
Oui - socialement
Je bois de l'alcool
Non
Personnalité
Au lycée, j'étais un/e
Calme
Socialement, je suis plutôt
Observateur, Sympa
Mes passions et loisirs sont
Famille, Dîner , Photographie, Lecture, Apprendre, Films, Internet, Jeux, Théâtre, Cuisine, Jeux de cartes, Ordinateurs
Un bon moment pour moi c'est
Sortir avec des amis, Rester à la maison, Faire de nouvelles expériences, Regarder un bon film, Me relaxer, Lire, Télévision, Aller au musée
Mes amis me décrivent comme
Sympa, Trublion, Neuneu
Points de vue sur la vie
Ma religion c'est
Croyances spirituelles mais pas religieuses
Je vais à la messe
Jamais
Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt
Intelligent, Sarcastique, Sympa, Neuneu, Obscur/e
Goûts
A la télévision, je regarde
Documentaires, Sitcoms, Programmes instructifs, Films, Sports
Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours
Action, Science-fiction, Comédies, Documentaires, Thrillers
Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est
Country, Rock, Pop, Classique, Blues, Folk
Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est
Bandes-dessinées / Romans graphiques, Fantaisie, Fictions, Horreur, Humour, Mystères, Nature, Œuvres de référence, Satires, Sciences, Science-fiction, Surnaturel
Recherchant un/e
Que trouvez-vous attirant?
Bon sens, Pouvoir, Audace, Sensibilité, Empathie, Talents, Humour, Délicatesse, Intelligence
Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?
Rendez-vous, Engagement, Domination, Bondage