Emotional Switch with a Bite
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Denver, Colorado | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
First name
Andrew
I Would Describe Myself As
I’m a switch who’s spent years in charge — professionally, emotionally, sexually. I know how to lead. I know how to take. I know how to control a room and ruin someone’s breath with just a look. But lately? That’s not what I’m chasing anymore.
I want someone who can take me apart.
What I crave now is intensity. Mutual obsession. A dynamic where I don’t have to hold everything together. Where I can pour my dominance into you when it’s time to bite, bruise, and claim — but just as easily fall to my knees and be remade. I don’t want to act strong. I want to choose who gets to see me weak, needy, leaking, and obedient. I want rules. Power exchange. Pain and permission. I want to earn every orgasm and feel you take pride in making me beg for it.
I’m not new to kink. I’ve lived it, led it, explored the edges of humiliation, obedience, denial, and rough control. But now I want someone who sees submission not as service — but as surrender. Someone who can read my defiance as a challenge, not a flaw — and tame it with teeth or tenderness.
I’ll take control when you want to be devoured. I’ll lead when you need to fall. But I’ll kneel the moment you tell me I belong there.
You don’t have to dominate me 24/7. But when you do? I want it to mean something.
Let’s build something where we both get what we need — intensity, honesty, and the freedom to be fully fucked up and fully seen.
And if that sounds like too much? Then maybe I’m not the one.
But if it sounds like exactly what you’ve been waiting for?
Then I’ll wait for your leash.
I want someone who can take me apart.
What I crave now is intensity. Mutual obsession. A dynamic where I don’t have to hold everything together. Where I can pour my dominance into you when it’s time to bite, bruise, and claim — but just as easily fall to my knees and be remade. I don’t want to act strong. I want to choose who gets to see me weak, needy, leaking, and obedient. I want rules. Power exchange. Pain and permission. I want to earn every orgasm and feel you take pride in making me beg for it.
I’m not new to kink. I’ve lived it, led it, explored the edges of humiliation, obedience, denial, and rough control. But now I want someone who sees submission not as service — but as surrender. Someone who can read my defiance as a challenge, not a flaw — and tame it with teeth or tenderness.
I’ll take control when you want to be devoured. I’ll lead when you need to fall. But I’ll kneel the moment you tell me I belong there.
You don’t have to dominate me 24/7. But when you do? I want it to mean something.
Let’s build something where we both get what we need — intensity, honesty, and the freedom to be fully fucked up and fully seen.
And if that sounds like too much? Then maybe I’m not the one.
But if it sounds like exactly what you’ve been waiting for?
Then I’ll wait for your leash.
Sign
Cancer
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Heavyset
My Height Is
5' 9 (1.75 m)
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian